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Michal: When Love Doesn’t Shield You from Pain

Michal: When Love Doesn’t Shield You from Pain

Welcome to Part 3 of the ‘Emotional Healing’ series for wives…She mourned privately in silence. Not just a moment of misunderstanding, but a life filled with deep, unresolved wounds. There are women in Scripture whose stories are loud with miracles, victories, and visible strength. And then… there’s Michal—a woman whose life whispers with sorrow. Her name appears only a handful of times, yet the shadows of her story echo through generations.

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Are You Losing Yourself as a Wife?

Are You Losing Yourself as a Wife?

Welcome to Part 2 of the ‘Emotional Healing’ series for wives…You used to laugh a little louder. Dream a little bigger. Feel more alive. And now, though you love deeply and serve faithfully, there’s an ache. A hidden longing. You pour and pour—but feel so rarely filled. Many wives find themselves slowly fading into the background. Not intentionally. Not dramatically. But subtly… one quiet compromise, one unspoken need, one buried dream at a time.

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A Sacred Journey Back to Wholeness

A Sacred Journey Back to Wholeness

Welcome to Part 1 of the ‘Emotional Healing’ series for wives….Emotional healing isn’t about pretending everything is okay. It’s about being honest enough to say, “God, this hurts. But I trust You to walk me through it.” As wives, we pour so much of ourselves into our homes, our marriages, and our families. But often, we do so while ignoring the parts of us that are bleeding. Healing begins when we permit ourselves to feel, to rest, and to allow God into the hidden places of our hearts.

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7 Ways to Being Present and Enjoying the Process of Being a Wife

7 Ways to Being Present and Enjoying the Process of Being a Wife

Welcome to the final Part 5 of the ‘Embracing the Process’ series for wives…You’re not falling behind. You’re being gently led by the One who knows you, sees you, and is shaping you into something far more beautiful than you can imagine. Embracing the process means choosing faith over frustration. It’s learning to trust God’s perfect timing, even when we don’t understand it. It’s releasing the need to control and instead leaning into the One who holds it all together.

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5 Lessons from Esther’s Journey as a Wife

5 Lessons from Esther’s Journey as a Wife

Welcome to Part 3 of the ‘Embracing the Process’ series for wives…Esther embraced the process, and in doing so, she became a vessel through which God moved mightily. Her story is a call to every wife to embrace the process. For your position is sacred, your voice is needed, and your journey is ordained. Every wife has an Esther within her; called, crowned, and positioned for such a time as this.

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Waiting for An Apology?

Welcome to Part 1 of the ‘Embracing the Process’ series for wives…How many of us, as wives, have found ourselves quietly waiting—for an apology, for change, for healing, for clarity—only to feel stuck in the silence of unmet expectations? That moment stirred something within me. It reminded me of how easy it is to pause our growth, our healing, simply because we’re waiting for something or someone else to shift. But what if the waiting isn’t a pause in the journey—what if it’s part of the process?

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